It is estimated that threesome is the most popular fantasy for Americans. There are more people in US have tried threesome than you can imagine. Threesome is favored by all swingers people. However, threesome can also be a destroyer for a relationship if you are a swinger couple. Threesome means that involving a third person into your relationship when most people still harbors the idea of monogamy. It is not easy to accept and welcome the third person. It can possibly damage your relationship in different degrees. However, if you do it right, it can open a new and wonderful threesome wonderland in your hookup relationship. It can strengthen your bond to each other and add extra spice into your life.
How to have a successful threesome? Here are three tips for you.
First, be honest and communicative. If you are to have a threesome, you should communicate more and be honest with each other. Do not hide your true feelings due to bashfulness. There are lots of things you should talk about before bringing in the third person. Where would you like to have a threesome? In a hotel or your house? If you are going to have a threesome with a stranger, maybe hotel is a nice choice. Because you do not know the person. It is possible that he/she steals. If you are to have a threesome with someone you are familiar with, maybe in your house wouldn't matter so much. How would you like to do it? Do you have any particular thing that you do not appreciate doing? Such as kissing, touching, etc. Make sure you know the boundaries of each other and do not cross them.
Second, be generous of each other. Involving another person into your sex life means sharing. Husband is going to share wife and otherwise, wife is going to share husband. The purpose of having a threesome is for you all three to have fun together, not to have another person to watch you having sex. That is freak and nobody want that. No one will be happy if one of you is not happy. Therefore, be generous to each other. Since you have decided to have a threesome, act like that. Make sure the third person feels welcomed.
Third, have fun. Why do you want to have a threesome? For the fun of course. If two person having sex generates fun, then make it double in a threesome. Always remember the purpose of having a threesome. If you are not having fun, why are you still doing that? Feel free to call it stop when you don't feel comfortable. Do not try to force yourself into it for other people. Believe me, if you are not having fun, neither will them.